This is a big issue with a lot of parents, when to talk to their kids about sex. Questions, at least general ones, tend to start at an early age asking where babies come from and things like that. I cheated with that question because my oldest child came c-section so I simply said “the cut my belly open and pulled out your sister because I couldn’t have her the normal way.” I know I cheated and I did it with all three kids until they got a little older but that was my way of preparing for the talks with them as they grew with more questions. At first I was thrown off and a little embarrassed but I faked it till I made it and that seemed to work just fine. The kids were none the wiser. I answered questions to the best of my ability and when I didn’t have answers I would tell the kids honestly that I didn’t know but that I would find out for them and I always followed through with that promise. Now my kids are older and the sex talks are often more about when is it the right time and about birth control. I am an advocate for abstinence and my children are well aware of that but I have also told them that I want them to know they can talk to me and I will be here to listen with any questions or concerns. I have had a few brought to my attention by my 16 year old and have answered honestly even if I wish she wasn’t in need of such answers. She has talked to me about everything from birth control, to petting, to intercourse and I have held in my urge to run and scream as I have answered her as honestly as I can reminding her that it’s always best to wait until she is married. So far I am positive she is not having sex, thank god, but I know she is curious and is getting as much info about it as she can. I guess being informed is a good start and with knowledge is power, hopefully the power to make the right decisions.